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As an American boy in a Midwestern US
junior high school I could not have been less than a million cultural miles
from Rugby public school in 1830s England, yet when I came across quite by
chance an old copy of Tom Brown’s Schooldays (1856) by Thomas Hughes, I was
transfixed. Apart from the fact that the boys wore waistcoats and top hats and
drank porter (no Kool-Aid back then) which was exotic in itself, there was one
aspect of the story that gripped and terrified me. Bullying. I saw myself as
young Tom facing the evil and seemingly invincible Flashman. Because I knew
bullying. My life seemed to be made up of escape-routes from the pimply bullies
two years’ my senior who went round in gangs scaring the pants off us. I was
never actually roughed up by them, if coming close, but the threat was there. Later
when I reached 14 I was knocked down in the street by two boys as one pulled a
switchblade on me while they said obscene things about my mother. My mother was
a teacher at their school, a different one from mine. They left me on the
pavement vowing to cut out my liver if they ever saw me again. Yes, I took Tom
Brown’s Schooldays to heart. Life was pretty good on the whole but for this
undercurrent of menace.
Social media bullying must be equally
terrifying and demoralising, for both boys and girls. And perhaps the mobile
makes it seem virtually omnipotent. At least I had escape routes: there is no
escape from social media. But though the technology is there now, the impulse
or threat is the same as when we didn’t have smartphones. Are social media the ‘cause’
of bullying? Bullying was always there and may always be there: it just has
newer, different methods of malice.
Some months after that last incident I
went to live in western Canada and to an entirely different sort of high school, a
country school. Gone was the seething tension I had experienced in American
school life. We had naughty boys of course but no one seemed very interested in
promoting a reign of terror. It was wonderfully laid-back and peaceable.
Perhaps because we were mainly country youngsters – and perhaps it had
something to do with school sports. In American
high school sports are (or were) viciously competitive: I remember even
the school’s best athlete being reduced to tears by a barbaric ex-Marine of a
coach – a brute with black hair sprouting all
around his T-shirt collar. None of that up north. Boys in the Canadian
school were more focussed on skating, skiing, swimming and fishing than on
competitive games, which were played indifferently under tolerant coaches. In my
part of Canada only hockey was taken seriously but my school never went in for
it. So in the world of sport, where my ex-Marine-assault-course coach in
America was a macho figure in that school, bullying may well have been
in part a kind of emulation.
Because of experiencing such complete
contrasts I came to believe when quite young that bullying belonged to something
wider, something to do with the stresses and strains of a relentlessly competitive
culture. I would thus not be surprised if it were mooted that bullying has got
worse in Britain than ever before
(leaving 1830s Rugby to one side) because times in this run-up to Brexit are
more nervy and in a class-war that if anything is tending towards greater
harshness. Children and teenagers are as much a part of society as any other
group, feeling the tensions their own parents may not even suspect they
harbour. To me social media may not always be all that edifying, let alone ‘social’,
but I don’t think they are at the root of the problems of their alleged victims.
A propos, I once likened the moral
panic that the almost universal use of social media has engendered to moral
panics of the past: the evil influence of comic books (Dr Frederick Werth in
1950s America), of TV’s immoral effects (Mrs Mary Whitehouse, UK 1960s+), of
rock ‘n roll and Elvis the Pelvis, of video amusement arcades, and now of
widespread accessibility of pornography to the young. (The grainy
black-and-white porn in my day was flashed about in the boys’ loo.) Children it
seems are so in the grip of games and social media that they sit up all night
with their smartphones, unable to communicate with others in the flesh in the
daytime, with cognising difficulties and inability to concentrate on anything
more than for a few seconds.
But there has not till now been
anything like conclusive scientific evidence to do with any of these moral
panic allegations, only anecdotal stuff, blown up out of all proportion in the
popular press, which even has child psychologists and educationists believing
it. But now there is a glimmer of hope in the form of real substantiated
evidence: this is provided through publication in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences by Amy Orben
(lecturer in psychology at Queen’s College, Oxford) and Andrew Przybylski
(director of research at the Oxford Internet Institute). The aim of the study
was not to focus on the technology so much as on ‘how social media and life
satisfaction influence each other and to do so over time’. They focussed on ‘a
sample of more than 10,000 preteens and teens, analysing nearly a decade of longitudinal
data from British adolescents’. Perhaps the most thorough and comprehensive
study of its kind made to date.
It would not be true to say that they
came up with precisely zilch. In more than half of those they tested they found
nothing but ‘random statistical noise’, and in the remainder ‘some small trends
over time – these were mostly clustered in data provided by teenage girls’. ‘But
it’s not an exaggeration to say that these effects were miniscule by the
standards of science and trivial if you want to inform personal parenting
decisions. Our results indicated that 99.6% of the variability in adolescent
girls’ satisfaction with life had nothing
to do with how much they used social media.’ (Observer, London, 7 July 2019.)
I would go further and say that while
children may act instinctively (much like the rest of us, if truth be known)
they are not stupid. They are, let’s face it, entering the cyberworld of our
time, and are equipping themselves for it, whether they know this or not. Employment
is centring on the use of computer and smartphone; so is much of everyday life.
For them not to be engaged at ever-earlier ages would bind them to losing out
one way or another by the time they reached adult life and responsibility. The
problem is one of balance: of engaging with real things like books and art galleries
and outdoor physical activities, and of joining in sociality with real friends
as well as ‘cyber’ friends. The evidence so far provided by Orben and
Prszybylski does not suggest that through social media we are turning out
recluses and hermits.
In any case I have great faith in the
human capacity to be bored or jaded, especially – that is – among the
present-day and more privileged part of the human race. There is a craze for
something everybody’s doing, but crazes either die out in time or become
relegated to just another aspect of life’s routine. There’s always something else,
something new. Recently by chance when channel-hopping I came across an item on
Blue Peter (CBBC) in which a little boy was proudly showing off his new
discovery: a typewriter! He demonstrated to an apparently astonished young
presenter that you can actually type real letters on to a piece of paper with
this gadget!
Meanwhile we have the deeper problem
of a society that appears to be losing both cohesion and the promise of
security for the many. In response, the social medium has its political uses too.
Has it not been instrumental in informing children about, for example, Greta Thunberg,
and thus encouraging them to join her in the worldwide crusade to save the
planet? Frankly, the fewer mainstream newspapers young people might read on
this topic the better.
But perhaps a sinisterly relevant kind
of bullying is what Britain’s schoolchildren are actually going through: I mean
bullying by the State. In a poll taken of NEU (teachers’ union) primary
schoolteachers, no less than 97% proclaim themselves opposed to the SATS exam
system and to their children being driven nuts by wave after wave of exams
(instead of learning anything). (E.g. Guardian 9 July 2019.) In the bad old
days of childhood oppression when I was a lad I don’t recall a single exam from
my elementary/primary schooldays. We only started taking exams at Big School.
If young kids look haunted and anxious to you these days it may not be down to
social media!
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